Reach daters the moment they’re deciding where to go.
A curated guide to date spots across New York, New Jersey and Connecticut — opened by thousands of people planning where to take someone this week. List your restaurant, activity, or experience and meet them at the moment of choice.
NY · NJ · CT. Free to list · placements always labelled · every metric tracked.
People don’t browse The Dating List. They open it to decide.
That single habit makes every impression worth more than a listing in a directory nobody reads with intent.
- Reach buyers, not browsers
- Our audience is choosing where to spend money on a date this week — not window-shopping a directory.
- Own your local category
- Rank at the top of Restaurants, Activities and more in the exact tristate areas you serve.
- See everything we track
- Views, website and booking clicks, directions, saves, add-to-date — all in your dashboard.
From application to featured, in four steps.
- 01
Apply
Tell us about your spot. Anyone can apply in a couple of minutes — free, no card.
- 02
Get approved
We review, tidy the copy, and publish so your listing looks its best.
- 03
Manage & measure
Edit details with a quick review, and watch your analytics day by day.
- 04
Grow with placements
Buy featured spots and top-of-category ranking when you want more reach.
We sell reach like a publication sells its pages.
Featured spots at the front of the guide — the home hero, the top of a category, the Discover row. Clearly labelled, priced up front, yours by the month.
The Dating List · Placements
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Tristate · 2026
- Homepage Hero
- App home screen, above the fold
- Category Top Spot
- Rank #1 in your category, by region
- Discover Featured
- Front of the “Featured this week” row
- Deal Banner
- On and around your listing
Every placement is clearly labelled Featured or Sponsored. Month to month, no contract — prices are starting rates until billing launches.
Reach the daters who are ready to decide.
Listing is free to start. Apply in a few minutes and meet daters at the exact moment of choice.